The home has changed a lot these days, courtesy the pandemic. Sometime it's an office where the man and woman are on zoom meetings or frantically walk around taking office calls, at other times it's a classroom with children answering the teachers or displaying their projects. Suddenly, it becomes a beauty parlour when ladies bring out their creams, lipsticks, perfumes et all. Not just that, it also turns into a saloon when the wife grudgingly snips the overgrown hair of the husband. On weekends, it turns into gym or sometimes a dance class.
Thursday, September 30, 2021
Home, office, classroom or salon?
Thursday, September 23, 2021
How to Read Your Husband Like a Book: The perfect gift for newly married women
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In a world where the husband-wife relationship is good fodder for stand-up comedy, this easy-to-read book offers fresh insight into the inner workings of a “husband’s mind”.
Through humorous nuggets and simple illustrations, this book explains how a husband ‘thinks’, what makes him ‘respond’ the way he does, his ‘reaction’ to certain situations that crop up in married life and what a wife can do to avoid friction and get her own way.
So, all newly married women out there and even those who've been married for years and losing hair thinking about why they forget your birthday, leave wet towels on the bed, don't notice your new hair style, watch TV when you talk to them – pick up this book and laugh your way through marriage! Husbands, it's time to laugh at yourselves!
Rajasekar KS
Sunday, September 19, 2021
How pandemic is hurting the husband-wife relationship
With the work
from home scenario, suddenly the couple has been forced to stay together the
whole day. Nobody wanted it and nobody wants it, that way. While initially, it
seemed to work wonders being around together more often than before, watching
movies on OTT, playing board games, browsing through the photo albums together,
soon it turned into a nightmare.
While the
husbands were earlier quietly enjoying the day time break being away from home
and at office, the women who relished the “Me Time” have begun to feel suffocated
with the man being around at home, all the time. Think about the working women,
she is harassed for time everyday with home, inlaws, husband, kids and
household chores. No gym, no walking and not much time for herself. The pent up
feelings and piling office work is beginning to hurt their mental and physical
well being.
The healthy
space between the two has vanished and quarrels and abuse have become common. Imagine
being quarantined without having Covid, that’s exactly how most women have been
feeling during the pandemic. The online classes haven’t helped either with kids
occupying the bedroom and demanding something to eat every one hour.
Help for
household chores is a daily bother with excuses of office call, online class
etc being thrown in.
Unless the
men understand what their spouse is going through and support them; and together
with the children do 50:50 in household chores and relinquish their rooms now
and then for women; and private and government come together to set up some
support systems, the pandemic will leave a psychological scar on the wife-husband
relationship forever.
In the
meantime, the helplines and phone lines of counsellors are buzzing with calls
from married women.
Rajasekar
KS, Author of the upcoming book How to Read Your Husband Like a Book. He
can be reached at positivemantra@gmail.com
Saturday, September 18, 2021
If I know what love is, it's because of you
When your husband stands by you, you can take on the world. That's the power of love!
Saturday, September 11, 2021
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